They say that once
trust is broken in a relationship, it is hard to regain it. This is because
trust is considered the foundation of a healthy relationship. Cheating is the
leading cause of mistrust and is commonly known to be the killer of most
relationships. There are both subtle signs and, at other times, very obvious
ones that your spouse is cheating. Therefore, as you go with your gut feeling,
it is also helpful to know some of the five tell signs that he is cheating on
you.
He suddenly takes a keen interest in his appearance
It may be possible
that he is just trying to boost his self-esteem but then if you notice he likes
to dress smarter when going somewhere without you compared to how he dresses
when with you, this is a sign that should not be ignored. He might be doing
this to impress someone else.
He needs a lot more privacy
If there were no
secrets between the two of you at the beginning of the relationship and now you
start to feel like he is shutting you out, there is a problem. Also, if he was
okay with sharing his passwords but suddenly changes them and always puts the
phone away from you, this is another red flag. It indicates there are things he
doesn’t want you to find out. And it could be a sign that he is cheating or
about to cheat on you.
A change in spending habits
When he is cheating,
you will notice a change in his financial practices. If you see that he is
unable to account for a lot of money spent, it could be that he is spending it
on the other woman. As he tries to impress someone else, he will buy gifts and
take her on dates. He is not going to show you the receipts, so pick this as
another red flag.
He accuses you of cheating for no apparent reason
Did you know that
people tend to blame others for what they are doing? If you notice that your
spouse is always suspecting you of cheating for no apparent reason, this is a
sign that guilt is eating them up, and they are looking for something to make
you look bad to justify their actions.
He lies to you over and over
A cheater’s best
friend is dishonesty. A man who lies to you about his whereabouts or who he is
with; won’t tell you how he is spending money or texting on the phone. This
kind of man is not to be trusted, and these could be signs that he is cheating
on you. If you notice nervousness and the tendency to over-share details more
than necessary when you ask him a question, know that he is not honest. Sometimes he will
turn things around and get upset with you to divert the matter, so pick this
sign and know that he is up to something.
There are many signs
to tell that he is cheating on you, and it is up to you to decide how you will
deal with the issue. Try to put your emotions and fears on the side when
investigating to avoid ruining your relationship because of paranoia. However,
if your gut keeps telling you that something is up, don’t ignore it.
